Leaping Frog

Being on and off a relationship or even wedlock has become a common thing these days. Let's not even analyze the factors contributing to these issues. I'd rather talk on what happens after that. Yes, provoked, yet again. As always.

This seems to be what happens next : 

Suicide attempts

~ Attempts succeed most of the time. Either one or both dies. End of story. 

Depression

~ Like duh! Cry your heart out for minutes, hours, days, weeks, months and even years. Then you feel so sick of being depressed and you decide to give life another chance, only to know that it went down the drain again. And the cycle continues. Of course, the opposite could happen too. You'll live happily ever after. Ohh wait, that will be in your dreams. Nah, just kidding. 

Lost and Clueless

~ You practically have no idea what to do next because even to move to the next room, you practically need a map and you will still get lost. Simple reason : You practically don't function well without your other half due to too much dependence. 

Substance abuse

~ Alcoholism/drug abuse. Short time satisfaction for a long term effect. Eventually it becomes a habit and then life becomes a damn drama. *Singing Amy Whinehouse's Rehab*

Bad mouth
~ Start calling him/her names. Spread the news to everyone. Make yourself the victim. Even if you are one, bad mouthing others is a dirty, cheap trick. Please, grow up. 

Leaping frog 

~ Rebound. Just to fill the void, pain and a little bit of vengeance. Expecting the new comer to replace the former is such a wrong thing to do. Even if it is of mutual feelings. Eventually, shit happens and the cycle goes again. 

Single all the way 

~ Solitude at its peak. Of course! But what the heck. If you have the money, the job, the assets and all the freedom to do all you ever wanted with your life, then let that be it. It's not a must to follow the lame life cycle. And it's not necessary to refrain yourself from giving yourself or perhaps another individual a chance.

The truth is, someone somehow is going to hurt you in some ways. It's whom that's worth the pain that matters.

Life's Tough....And Then You Die

TO ALL MY BELOVEDS,

Things are so not going well for now. It's okay. Shit happens. Just keep holding on. Even if it doesn't help as much. Seek help. Talk it out. You'll feel so much better.

There's nothing embarassing about seeking help. Even if you're a guy. (Let's not even go there). And if you think talking things out will never solve shit, you are absolutely wrong. Apparently, when you talk things out or vent out your frustrations, you will actually feel better. It doesn't really matter if the person you talk to is able to fix your issues or not. When you let it off your chest, you'll feel lighter. By bottling up your issues, you could be halting another person's life. It's called being selfish and that causes even more damage  So, just don't.

Share your issues. In someway, it helps others too.

Here comes the highlight : If at all you talk about your issues and that someone says,"There are so much bigger issues than yours. So many people starve to death, bla bla bla", just fucking bitch slap the person.

When one has an issue, it is big enough for him/her. Don't go comparing the issue with poverty and starvation or even war. That's totally out of the point. Just help. If you can't, the best you could do is just listen. Most of the time, people with issues just want someone to listen. Nothing more.

My dearest beloveds, even if I hit you guys with my sarcasm every little time we talk things out, just remember this : I care. I totally do. Your issues matter to me. All I want is the best for each and every one of you. Perhaps things could be dealt in a different way.

So, take care. Shit happens. Keep holding on.

Well, Life's tough............and then you die.

=)